Another one
Do y’all agree?
Do y’all agree?
WHAT MEN WANT
Last week I did a post telling brothers what women want (find it on my timeline). A few people challenged me speak on the other side of the equation. So here it is...
WHAT MEN WANT
It's not as simple as the ladies side of the equation.
1. A man wants you to be his PEACE.
Men, specifically black men are in a constant battle for dignity, success, respect, and 1000 other things that we shouldn't have to constantly battle to achieve. When he come home to you or into your space the last thing he wants is another battle. He wants your space to be his peace. If you cannot be, you are not the right woman for that man.
2. He wants LOYALTY
We are all familiar with the term ride or die chick. Here's the good news. You don't have to ride and no one has to die. It's about having his back. Supporting him. Loyalty is more than just sexual fidelity. It's about the certainty that you are in his corner and ready to back him up against any enemy or challenge.
3. He wants RESPECT
If he is worthy enough for you to lay down with, be seen in public with, or to have your name associated with his then he should also be worthy of your respect. I don't have to explain what respect is. You know what it is. If he hasn't earned your respect you should not be with him. Period. Full stop.
4. He wants PARTNERSHIP
The two of you together should be greater than either of you alone. He wants a partner. Someone to help him build and curate the life you both envision. The Life you have agreed to seek. He is not here to deliver it to you. He want you to help him build it.
5. He wants RECIPROCITY.
If your man gives you love he wants love in return. If he give you joy he wants joy in return. The happiness and every other positive energy he brings to your life is to be given back to him. If he is not bringing love, joy, peace, happiness, and positive influence and energy you should not be with him.
... and he wants sex. Sometimes the nasty kind. Often. Regularly. Consistently.
Now you know..
Thank you for coming to my RegTalk
#freegame #whatmenwant
Do y’all agree?
Do y’all agree?
WHAT MEN WANT
Last week I did a post telling brothers what women want (find it on my timeline). A few people challenged me speak on the other side of the equation. So here it is...
WHAT MEN WANT
It's not as simple as the ladies side of the equation.
1. A man wants you to be his PEACE.
Men, specifically black men are in a constant battle for dignity, success, respect, and 1000 other things that we shouldn't have to constantly battle to achieve. When he come home to you or into your space the last thing he wants is another battle. He wants your space to be his peace. If you cannot be, you are not the right woman for that man.
2. He wants LOYALTY
We are all familiar with the term ride or die chick. Here's the good news. You don't have to ride and no one has to die. It's about having his back. Supporting him. Loyalty is more than just sexual fidelity. It's about the certainty that you are in his corner and ready to back him up against any enemy or challenge.
3. He wants RESPECT
If he is worthy enough for you to lay down with, be seen in public with, or to have your name associated with his then he should also be worthy of your respect. I don't have to explain what respect is. You know what it is. If he hasn't earned your respect you should not be with him. Period. Full stop.
4. He wants PARTNERSHIP
The two of you together should be greater than either of you alone. He wants a partner. Someone to help him build and curate the life you both envision. The Life you have agreed to seek. He is not here to deliver it to you. He want you to help him build it.
5. He wants RECIPROCITY.
If your man gives you love he wants love in return. If he give you joy he wants joy in return. The happiness and every other positive energy he brings to your life is to be given back to him. If he is not bringing love, joy, peace, happiness, and positive influence and energy you should not be with him.
... and he wants sex. Sometimes the nasty kind. Often. Regularly. Consistently.
Now you know..
Thank you for coming to my RegTalk
#freegame #whatmenwant
Another one
Do y’all agree?
Do y’all agree?
WHAT MEN WANT
Last week I did a post telling brothers what women want (find it on my timeline). A few people challenged me speak on the other side of the equation. So here it is...
WHAT MEN WANT
It's not as simple as the ladies side of the equation.
1. A man wants you to be his PEACE.
Men, specifically black men are in a constant battle for dignity, success, respect, and 1000 other things that we shouldn't have to constantly battle to achieve. When he come home to you or into your space the last thing he wants is another battle. He wants your space to be his peace. If you cannot be, you are not the right woman for that man.
2. He wants LOYALTY
We are all familiar with the term ride or die chick. Here's the good news. You don't have to ride and no one has to die. It's about having his back. Supporting him. Loyalty is more than just sexual fidelity. It's about the certainty that you are in his corner and ready to back him up against any enemy or challenge.
3. He wants RESPECT
If he is worthy enough for you to lay down with, be seen in public with, or to have your name associated with his then he should also be worthy of your respect. I don't have to explain what respect is. You know what it is. If he hasn't earned your respect you should not be with him. Period. Full stop.
4. He wants PARTNERSHIP
The two of you together should be greater than either of you alone. He wants a partner. Someone to help him build and curate the life you both envision. The Life you have agreed to seek. He is not here to deliver it to you. He want you to help him build it.
5. He wants RECIPROCITY.
If your man gives you love he wants love in return. If he give you joy he wants joy in return. The happiness and every other positive energy he brings to your life is to be given back to him. If he is not bringing love, joy, peace, happiness, and positive influence and energy you should not be with him.
... and he wants sex. Sometimes the nasty kind. Often. Regularly. Consistently.
Now you know..
Thank you for coming to my RegTalk
#freegame #whatmenwant
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